Humans are social creatures in which we as people are required by several provisions and values. Is it right? Starting from the school option when we want to enter school, busy parents sort out the school that they think is the best type.
At school, children are also required to have perfect scores and occupy a certain order. At the end of college, another requirement is income, either starting your own business or working in an industry. In some families, especially sometimes there are those who are nosy who are not playing with equalizing the income they get.
Once working, until the next demand is to have a family. Now this is about to spread to the matter of seeds, weight and burdens, but we put this one aside first. After having a family, which means that the 3 B's are fulfilled, the social pressure that must be answered quickly is having a generation.
After having a generation up, the cycle of going umpteenth in school, grades, after that work and so on, as described above.
We as part of the cycle, without realizing it, are often carried along with an active role in passing on these demands to our children. That is the best compulsory school, compulsory work in the best industry, I agree, but what are the parameters being pronounced the best here? The value or personality instilled by the school or more in the expected academic value to be obtained in order to be competitive with other schools?
It's difficult because we are demanded by the area, let alone our own non-nuclear family, it's hard because children are expected to become "Elite People" when they are in their later years. The comparison between hopes and worries is thin here, so we often practice various provisions to justify that the child is on the right "track" in the mother and father types.
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